Problems

You are not inferior because you have problems.

Problems are a part of human life – a condition of your existence.

And, if you need any proof that you are a part of the human species and not so isolated from others, that is it.

They are challenges, highly characteristic of all living matter.

Let it be understood that your problems are no more upsetting, disagreeable, or exhausting than other people's.

Many do not even reach your ages.

"Before we begin, let it be understood that your problems are no more upsetting, disagreeable, or exhausting than other people's. Many do not even reach your ages. Problems are a part of human life – a condition of your existence. They are challenges, highly characteristic of all living matter.

Your own problems can appear so large that you forget this. You are not inferior because you have problems. You are simply human. And, if you need any proof that you are a part of the human species and not so isolated from others, that is it. Again, however, creative challenges are set by each individual, challenges that involve achievements, of course, of one kind or another, simple or sublime. You are not inferior because you have problems.

Perfectionists, however, not only take a dim view of problems, but consider each one a blot, a proof of inferiority in themselves or others. And, they see such blots everywhere. They are, in a certain fashion, overly conscientious. And, they fear spontaneity lest it be less than perfect. They fear flaws."

The Personal Sessions, Book 5. 1979.01.03 (PS5)